【文思不藏私】放手 To Let GO
2 min readMay 9, 2023
- To LET GO is to fear less and love more. 放手是少一點恐懼，多一點愛
- To Let GO doesn’t mean to stop caring. It means I can’t do it for someone else. 放手不是不在乎了，而是承認我無法代替他人完成工作
- To LET GO is not to cut myself off. It’s the realization that I don’t control another. 放手不是自我隔離，而是領悟到我無法控制別人
- To LET GO is not enable, but to allow learning from natural consequences. 放手不是給予能力，而允許他從經驗學習
- To LET GO is to admit powerlessness, which means the outcome is not in my hands. 放手不是承認無力，意味著結果不是我能一手掌握
- To LET GO is not to try to change or blames another. I can only change myself. 放手是不改變或責備對方，因為我只能改變自己
- To LET GO is not to care for, but to care about. 放手不是照顧，而是關心
- TO LET GO is not to fix, but to be supportive. 放手不是不去糾正，而去提供支持
- To LET Go is not to judge, but to allow another to be a human being. 放手不是評斷，而允許他成為一個人
- To LET GO is not to be in the middle arranging all the outcomes, but to allow others to affect their own outcomes. 放手不是放棄控制所有結果，而是允許對方決定自己所要的結果
- To LET GO is not to be protective; it is to permit another to face reality. 放手不是試著保護對方，而是允許他去面對現實
- To LET GO is not the deny but to accept. 放手不是否認，而是接受
- To LET GO is not to nag, scold, or argue, but to search out my own shortcomings and to correct them. 放手是不嘮叨、責罵、辯解，而去發現自己的缺點並改進
- To LET GO is not to adjust everything to my desires but to take each day as it comes and to cherish the moment. 放手不是期待事物皆需依我的期待而行，而去接受每天自然發生的事，珍惜眼前的一切
- To LET GO is not to criticize and regulate anyone but to try to become what I dream I can be. 放手不是去批判或規定他人，而是試著成為自己夢想中想成為的人
- To LET GO is not regret the past but to grow and live for the future. 放手不是後悔過去，而是為未來成長
